Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Dearest Friend......Good Bye?!!!!!

Never in my wildest dreams thought I would post this.  My hands are shaking and I am sobbing inside and out as I type this.   I am not going to correct any gramatical mistakes, because that was your job in this blog.  How much you were proud of this blog.  WHY, WHY, WHY, WHY.............Sanjeev??????

I can't tpe any more.  I wanted to do this before I say a final good bye to you.  May you rest in PEACE.
Please come back to us from your slumber....... your are occupied in every nook and corner of our house.  I want to ask you soooo many questions.  

To family and friends:  If you know this wonderful person, please leave a message for him.  He reads this space every single day.


1965 - 2010
When ~ How ~ Why??????? We will never know.......

Thank You !  Thank You!  Thank You!



37 comments:

  1. I do not know him but I can understand your pain .May his soul rest in peace.

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  2. Its definitely a pain to say Goodbye to our dearest one..May his soul rest in peace..

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  3. i dont know him but i do understand what your going through now, may his soul rest in peace ...

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  4. May his soul rest in peace! Its always painful to lose near ones..

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  5. May his soul rest in peace.I pray that god grants you the strength to move on and Cherish the good memories.

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  6. Words seems to be inadequate to express my grief on Sanjeev's death.May his soul find peace and comfort.I pray God to give courage and blessings to Bhuvana,Sanjana and all family members during this tough time.
    chitra.

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  7. loosing someone who means a lot to us is always painful!!! wish you and his family lots of courage to face this absence !!!

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  8. He would always tease me.."Have you tried out the latest recipe from the blog.".."Did it come out as nice as the picture".."Fan meets the blogger..yeh! How does it feel". I will truly miss him and his witty remarks. Hoping and praying for courage and strength this week.

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  9. Feeling the heartache and pain due to this rude shock. Lata, we met at his house warming in mississauga and still remember him and bhuvana talking about your mulagitawny soup and when he sent this link, I thought to myself oh I should connect with Lata and never in my wildest thoughts thought I would connect now with you when he is no more..It hurts..Heard Sanjana is coping well and am glad they have all of you around them.....

    Sanjeev is one of a kind and has touched a lot of hearts....he has the knack of leaving impression on people he has met even for a short time..............

    Will miss you a great deal Sanjeev. Still in disbelief...

    Jayashree

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  10. My condolences to his family. May his soul rest in peace

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  11. Hearfelt condolences to u and the near ones who has lost a wonderful person. May his soul rest in peace.

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  12. Words seem inadequate to express the sadness we feel.

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  13. We are in disbelief that Sanjeev is no more.We pray to God to give Bhuvana and his daughter strength and courage to deal with this huge loss!

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  14. I'm extremely sorry for your loss....

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  15. My condolences to his family !

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  16. I don't know why God do this..its always so painful to loose someone..I am so sorry for the loss..

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  17. can understand how u must be feeling tk cre dear,..

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  18. Sanjeev,


    Your vanishing from all of us all of a sudden is gross injustice to your dear wife and daughter
    and your life long friends.When we think of a person like you with so much dynamysm and
    exuberance is no more in our midst we are spell bound .May God bless your soul and
    give strengh to your family.


    Parents of Mahesh.

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  19. We wer shocked to hear this sad unexpected and untollerable news. we don't know how to console Bhuvana Sanjana.We pray his soul be rested in peace and guide his family in all wlaks of life.
    Babu & Anandhi

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  20. Dear Mahesh, Latha and Chandrika,

    Our heartfelt condolences to all of you. Can't express in words how dreadful it is to hear this news. I realize that no words can console your grief. We can only pray to give you all enough strength to deal with this situation. Please tell Bhuvana that our prayers are with her.

    Please stay strong so you could support Bhuvana and her daughter.

    Anu.

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  21. Must be such a difficult and painful time for you to say good bye to a dear friend. May his soul rest in peace and may God give you the strength at such trying times.

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  22. Dear Latha,
    I am new to your blog but can surely understand your pain and loss.May your friend's soul rest in peace(He has a very beautiful smile).May you have all the strength and courage to cope up with this loss and be strong for his family.

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  24. May his soul rest in peace. I am new to ur blog. I feel very sorry for his family and loved ones.

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  25. As soon as I heard the news I could only remember the scene Sanjeev and Magesh talking and arguing in your house in the family room during golu. I haven't seen friends like this before. It is very painful to experience the loss of the dear one. Lets pray for his family to give strength and courage for the journey hereafter.

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  26. First time here but awful feeling yaar.. i am so sorry for that.. may his soul rest in peace..

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  27. First time here but awful feeling yaar.. i am so sorry for that.. may his soul rest in peace..

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  28. Latha, I've not been able to find any time lately to visit other blogs because of all that's going on with Lucy so I didn't see this before. But I want you to know I feel your pain. Losing a loved one is terrible and there is perhaps nothing I can say that would make you feel better right now. But there must be comfort in the fact that you knew Sanjeev-- I can tell from your sadness that he must've been a remarkable person.

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  29. hi papa.latha auntie said u read this everyday so im leavin a message for u.promise that when u read this ull write back ok?
    if u were still at home,then i would tell u how much fun i had in skool this term.im gettin a lot better in tamil and math and i was actually lookin forward to getting ur help in math.i will make an extra effort in math cuz it was ur favorite subject daddy.im gonna do real well in skool like u did.dont worry bout me daddy.ill be fine
    Sanju

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  30. My heartfelt condolences to Sanjay's family! I just cried after reading his daughter's comment. :( :(

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  31. I just came to know about this - Me, my husband and Sanjeev worked together at Pragati in Chennai back in the 80s. Sanjeev was a really good for me at that time. I met him briefly in NJ when he first moved here from somewhere in Singapore or Dhubai. He told me his wife's name was Bhuvana and how they had named their daughter Sanjana(Sanjeev and Bhuvana) - my heart broke today when I heard about this - life is too short and too meaningless - all the meaningless things we worry about make no sense any more to me. I thought you were happy with your wife and daughter and would fondly think about working with you. I feel bad I didnt have a chance to meet you more often in NJ

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  32. Dear Sanjeev,
    Its a year since u felt us all. But you are still in our hearts. I am able to hear you talk to me calling me by my name. Why did u do this to us sanjeev. I am unable to express in words.

    May your soul rest in peace

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  33. A year just flew by, but you remain in all our thoughts and prayers...Miss you..

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  34. Hi Latha, I chanced on your blog this morning. I don't know you or your friend. But i was touched by your tribute to your friend. God bless. Apu.

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